Anonymous said: I feel bad wanting to be called names and used for my mate's sexual pleasure. It turns me on so much, but men in my life don't seem the type to be that aggressive. It makes me feel wrong to ask someone to pull my hair or choke me because I think they will look down on me. It's driving me crazy.
It would be hypocrite for people to look down on someone who is honest about her feelings. You’re very normal. This blog has thousands of followers who love just what you like.
People with closed minds are the ones to ignore. As long as you’re not hurting anyone with what you do in your bedroom, it’s fine.
And to all men: I hope that you will realize sooner or later that girls don’t break when you handle them rough. They will tell you when it’s too much.
I know it’s counter intuitive to manhandle your girl. But most girls are just as tough as you are. Man up! Don’t judge her if she likes it rough, enjoy it instead. It’s the best sex you will ever get.